Habits

Pre – Approaching

• Daily Meditation
• PUA Exposure Therapy
• Positive Pick Up Diary
• Eat high carb, low fat before going out
• Daily Running (to keep my standing heart beat low)
• Weight Lifting (to keep my testosterone levels high)
• Maintain a social lifestyle as much as possible

On the day of Approaching

• Start being social as soon as you leave the house
• Ask for several directions while you are on your way to the street or bar of choice
• Approach as quickly as possible
• Be Authentic immediately (tell the girl how you really feel)
• Minimise time between each approach
• Realise that it is about your overall day or night not each individual approach
• If you can’t approach then do AA techniques to force yourself to do it
• Be positive while talking to women and your friends
• Make it fun! No Pressure!
• Start being loud.
• Force yourself to talk to groups of women for at least two minutes, even if they don’t appear interested. (If the women tell you to go away then obviously walk back to your friends or to a different part of the street)
• Ask for a number / Facebook / kiss close, on every approach.

FR: One-itis, Double Date, Epic Fail!

I read on fb that the girl, lets call her HB-TheOne, post a status update: 
"The Perks of Being a Wallflower & Ruby Sparks, someone watch it with me. Puhlease?  :))"
I saw the light coming.. The window of opportunity haha!

Little background: HB-TheOne is my classmate in a subject for a whole semester. I didn't have the chance to talk to her. She knew it and she can feel it that I'm attracted to her, although haven't talk to her about my attraction to her. Mirroring neurons.

Puro fluff talk lang and convos usually range to 2-3mins lang. Haven't gamed her since she has a bf. The Bf loves her, so I don't want to ruin a good relationship. But now, wala na. So gaming na!

Texted and set a movie date with her bff. On that day, the bff can't go. So I texted another HB to join us. and the fact that there are 2 HBs I have to get a wing. Best wingman ever. But let me on focus my chode game here. (See notes to remember.)

On that day, too many texts we're thrown back and forth.. eh kasi naman late kami ni wingman ng 1hr sa meeting place. Haha! Plus I and wing are so effin tired of all the paperworks from school. Sucks my state big time!

I was too much in my head so I got to a mindset na "I have to throw a joke as to break the Ice." And got to the LAMEST and WORST JOKE ever.

HB-TheOne: Ang tagal niyo ha.
Me: Sobrang traffic, Eto binili namin kayo ng Zagu. (Pampalubag loob)
HB-TheOne: Thanks!
HB2: Grabe ang tagal niyo ha.
Wing: Ang bilis nga namin eh. Hahaha!
Me: Oops. Kailangan masagot niyo muna to,

"Anong pagkain ang mabilis?"

Everyone: (looking indistinctly at each other.. 3 Second Awkwardnessssss.)

Me: "Sopas" (So-fast)
No one laughed. Huhu.

Boom CRASH and BURN simula pa lang. Go with the flow na lang.

So we went to see a movie, Taken 2. Sobrang astig in a sense na maganda yung pelikula. Hindi sayang yung pag-date ko.

After the movie, we went to eat on Mcdo. There I had the chance to talk to her. Hadn't gotten a chance to escalate physically coz we're across each other. (Lesson learned!)

But got a chance to seed a future activity (Road trip). I like road trips a lot, especially the unplanned ones and no destination. (Spontaneity = Being fun)

After it, we just went home and parted ways. Didn't had a chance to kino. Shizz AFCness kay One-itis!

Notes to remember:
- It's best to touch at early stage of relationship. Incidental kinos to start off. The more the time you hadn't touched her, the weirder it becomes.
- Escalate! Escalate! Escalate!
- Don't be a robot. Just go with the flow, but have intent to know where the relationship is going.
- I need to desensitize myself by approaching other HOT women.
- I don't need a WING! I don't want to depend myself on others.
- It has to be FUN! The game is FUN and NOT PURE TECHNICAL ACTS.

Recap: Prev Sets!

Recap March!

1st off is HB-ChineseGirl:
-Yeah fell in love with her kahit na wala na kami. putapete. Fuck these emotions!

2nd is HB-Space:
- This one hooked my interest recently. Bigla kasing nag text sakin out of the blue. As in she's calling my attention. My main problem is Finals week ngayon. And I can't even set a date/day 2 for her. My fucking bad!

Bad logistics. Also the need to evaporate my neediness. Fuck emotions!

Social: Turn it up a bit!

Career wise and Social wise okay naman.

Turn it up a notch on both aspects. Career, needs a little tweak lalo na pag dating sa assignments and homeworks. Need to read in advance. Lalo na for Exams and stuffs para hindi mag cramming plus para mag sink in na sa utak.

Social wise eto na.
- Whenever i see someone i know, build rapport agad. Don't hesitate. Social Momentum!
- Wag mahihiya. Be confident and assertive enough to be a man.
- Care to listen to other's shit. But don't dwell on it though.

January Review!

Review Recap!

So far so good.. and damn! I was so overly-productive-friendly-sociable person of the month!

I'm backward-rationalizing what happened in January. I was constantly pushing my comfort zone in terms of social and career life.

I was so focused on my exams, i didn't give a fuck on my growing pimples. Was so used to bumming out every weekend and my wednesday day-off from school, but fuck!!! I was making assignments, reviewing lectures and taking down notes!

As far as my social life is concerned, I was the best damn mothafucka! I lead my little-social-circle here in Cavite!

I lead the group in making every saturdays fun as always. Sometimes epic shit.


Cons:
I needed my discipline in jogging everyday to be tweaked a little higher. Then motivate myself gaming some more.

Manifesto

Emotion = Love Method (AFC/John Lloyd way) or Not a big deal Method (Masculine Polarity)
Physical = Kino = Incidental + Overt + Sexual
Logistics = Plan it out and be ASSERTIVE


- Start off Kino Early (Incidental)

- Be in the right mindset!
- Pag wala sa mood = Call out agad.
- When in doubt = Action agad. Follow the 3 second rule

- Get in state as soon as possible = SHM - Don't you worry child

- High Risk High Reward = Direct; Low Risk Low Reward = Indirect
- Direct > Indirect

- Verbal Escalation, Get deeper and sexual
- Triangular gaze (3 Seconds each hold of eye and lips.)
- Go for the kill
    -Hug
    -Kiss
    -Lay
    -OPTIONAL: Number

After mag attraction phase: disqualify, push-pull, dhv, cocky-funny
Isolate for compliance and comfort!

-Super Frame: Wag papatalo!

Jan 2013. Reloaded Goals

Every time a whim of idea takes place, I have at least 5 secs to record it on something. Cellphone. I use my cellphone's drafts as interconnected with my brain. Ideas, to-do's, projects, books. Basically a list.

Keeping on track of every ideas is one particular improvement in my life since 2012. This day forward, I'm revitalizing it into a more efficient tool.

Let me define my top 3 goals for the Project Blueprint. (As what i have recorded in my cellphone)
 - Get good with girls
 - Be serious on studies
 - Have an outstanding social life

These three goals shall be the pilars of the blueprint. Let us dissect each.

Aspect 1: Girls
 - I have been on a relationship, twice on serious ones. I may not be the know-it-all-guy on relationships. As far as my experience is concerned, I can tweak one or two on how to work it out.

- My goal for this aspect is to have a strong connection and meet new women. I want the skillset and mindset on how to meet and fully connect with women. PUA.

Aspect 2: Studies
 - I'm at my collegiate course at this present moment. I want to be more serious and focused on my everyday studies. I may not structure these sentences well. Through time there will be improvement. My ultimate sticking point, career.

Aspect 3: Social Life
 - I may not be the most social guy but I am also not the guy who sits on the corner everytime. I am on a clear perspective of the mediocre average guy.

 - This time, My goal is to be a warm social guy who can greet every one I see. May it be a friend, enemy, or stranger. Confidence and Self-belief is a big factor on this one.

May I have all what I want. May we all be happy on what we are right now. May we trust the process on getting there. The goals have been set, it's on us now to clear the path.